12.15.2006

TGIF!
This morning the building management where I work had a holiday breakfast for the entire building. It was so nice of them! Of course it was mostly pastries and croissant...Mmmm it was so good!

So all week long I've been packing my things and trying to organize my boxes and storage bins for the move this coming Sunday. Last night I packed all my dry food and kitchen appliances like I had planned to do. And I did manage to get some storage bins that were already packed out of my bedroom. I can't wait for the move to be all over with! Erick is suppose to come and help me move a car load tonight. And tomorrow Angelo is coming over and around 6-ish we're going to Loredana's birthday party. I can't wait, as we're suppose to go skating at Nathan Phillip Square... if the weather permits it. It's been a bit warmer than usual these past few days. And that's about it for moi. Hope everyone has a awesome weekend!

12.14.2006

8 simple rules for regifting
How to master the etiquette of regifting -- without getting caught or looking bad.
By Natalie Bahadur

When is regifting OK?
How do you avoid unintentionally hurting a friend or family member with thoughtlessness? Fox says there are guidelines to follow and that regifting should only be done on rare occasions when certain criteria are met. Here, the etiquette expert dishes tips for doing it right:

1. The item must be brand-new. Not last year's brand-new, this year's brand-new. It should be unopened, never played with, never worn, washed or tried out. It should be in its original undamaged packaging. All the bits and pieces must be intact, including the guarantee, if there is one. If the recipient or the regiftee returns it to the store, he should not be told, "We haven't carried that model in years."

2. Be sure the person who gave you the gift doesn't know (or know of ) the person receiving the gift. If it is an unusual item that could easily be identified, you shouldn't regift it unless the receiver is on another planet. The more unusual the item, the greater distance there should be between the giver and the regiftee.

3. Never regift something you've had in your closet for a few years or lying in the basement unused. If you've had an item for some time and you know it happens to be something your friend really wants or needs, give it to them. But don't wrap it up and pass it off as a gift you just purchased for them.

4. The regift should not be something horrible you're regifting just to get rid of it, or to avoid spending money on the receiver. Unless the item is something you would actually buy the recipient, you shouldn't give it to them. Remember, what you give is a reflection of you and your taste. Keep in mind that homely gifts you received for wedding presents can come into style years later or be future candidates for Antiques Roadshow.

5. Never regift items someone has hand-made for you. (Well duh, that's a no-brainer. lol) Those items are heartfelt and should be always be kept. In such instances the hurt feelings of the maker far surpass the value of the gift if you were to regift the item and it was discovered.

6. Take the time to rewrap the gift and attach new bows or ribbons. Always be sure you have removed any original gift tags or cards.

7. Can you regift, and announce it as a regift? Yes, when regifting adds value. For example, regifting a family quilt to your daughter-in-law, a family heirloom to another family member, your wedding dress to your granddaughter, your mother's engagement ring to your fiancée, and similar situations.

8. Only you can decide whether to regift something you have received. The basis of good manners is respect, care and consideration for others. Think through the circumstances and if in doubt, don't do it.

12.12.2006

Yup, the countdown is on...
Only 10 more sleeps to go before I leave for my trip to NB! I just found out that I will be travelling alone with Buddy. It will be quite the adventure. The couple that was suppose to come with us cancelled. They decided to stay in Toronto for the holidays. I'm happy to report that I'm almost done with my Christmas shopping! Today, we received our Union Basket from work and it's always full of goodies. Tomorrow is our Christmas Party and I'm looking forward to going this year. We haven't had an official one for the past 2 years. Some good news to share: My dad will officially be out of the hospital on December 15!!! So now he walks with a cane and is almost done with his therapy. Can't wait to see him when I come home.

Tuesday
Tonight I went to visit my good friend Colin. He lives in China Town East so I took the opportunity to go get some pasteries at the Chinese bakery. MMMMM SO YUMMY! We had some tea and ate a couple of them while catching up. I actually prefer this China Town over the big one on Spadina. Less dirty and a friendlier atmostphere. Anyway, it was nice seeing him again. Unfortuantely, Anthony was not home but I'll try to go back before I leave for my vacation next week.

12.11.2006

Monday
I have tones of stuff to do this week from packing cuz of my move this Sunday to attending a couple of Xmas parties. Yes, I'm moving in with my friend Alessandro and Arron. So my weekend was pretty good. The only downfall was Saturday morning... My roommate's stupid bf who is a real Biatch left me the classifieds at my bedroom door with circled adds and a note saying; "Some of these apartments are available for January 1st." Nice little hint, don't you think? He's such an arrogant, manipulative asshole and every time he opens his mouth it always comes out condescending and rude. Sometimes I wonder what I did to him to deserve such treatment and then I realize I did absolutely nothing. The problem is with him and not me. He is just an insecure old Fucken Queen who thinks I want a piece of Frank's ass. (ewwwwww) LOL I'll pass on that one.

Friday
I went to see Happy Feet with Angelo and it was a really good animation movie. The singing and tap dancing was awesome and the scenery was absolutely incredible. In all, I did give it a 5/5 stars for entertainment. As for the story line, I gave it more of a 3/5 stars. The sea lion part was incredibly funny. When the Amigos "penguins" came in the picture they really brought the movie to life with their jokes. I did appreciate the environmental theme that they had going but at some point during the movie the plot got kind of weird. If a tap dancing penguin shows up in a bio dome, don't you think they'd give him his own show at a circus in Las Vegas? But instead, they attached a GPS system onto his back in order to follow him to his colony? I just didn't get how environmentalist or biologist were able to figure out that a penguin colony was starving by seeing a captured penguin tap dancing. Now that was the part where I went, WTF? But at the end, I just didn't care because man, this "musical" was so great. I really wanted to clap when it was all done but others in the audience beat me to it. I can't wait for the DVD to come out!
The Amigos...

12.08.2006

And there we have it...
Same-sex marriage is here to stay in Canada! The vote was 175 - 123 against re-opening the debate that would have introduce legislative restoring the traditional definition of marriage between a man and a woman. Harper said he will respect today's vote and said, "We made a promise to have a free vote on this issue, we kept that promise, and obviously we'll accept the democratic result of the people's representatives."

As a gay man, I'm getting tired of constantly hearing debates on whether or not I'm an equal participant in Canadian society. I pay my taxes like everyone and vote like everyone therefore, I should be aloud to marry if I choose to do so like everyone else.

12.07.2006

Here we go again with same-sex marriage...
Late last night, MPs debated the controversial motion to revisit the debate on same-sex marriage. I'm just glad to hear that it appears to have little chance of passing. I mean seriously, has anyone been affected by same-sex marriage? Has it disturbed the peace of heterosexuals? NO! Has any gay couples sued priests, ministers who refused to marry them or rent them banquet halls? YES! (LOL) Well, I only know of one incident where a lesbian couple sued because they were refused to rent a banquet hall somewhere out west. But that's beside the point. This is a right that homosexuals got last year and it hasn't affecting anyone. It only helped us receive equal rights that were well deserved.

12.06.2006

The weeks are just flying by...
I just realized yesterday that in two weeks I'm leaving for my Christmas trip to NB!!! That doesn't give me much time to get ready. At least, I've got about 70% of my Christmas shopping done. Bad news is: I've been told that I have to move out from where I currently live. Since the bf moved in with us in July (BOOOO to the asshole!) he's been nothing but mean to me. I kept being nice to him through out the months but at the end he got what he wanted and I'm out in the street at the end of January. How sad is that!? LOL I've done nothing wrong and I was a very good roommate to Frank and Martin. I actually clean after myself and don't leave my things lying around the house. I even stay up in my room when I know their having a nice quiet dinner together. Oh well, life can be a bitch sometime. Next place I live, I'm gonna make sure that there is no boyfriends moving in... except for mine. LOL

12.05.2006

Hilarious joke!

12.04.2006

Some advice for all... especially for MOI! Now I just have to stop procrastinating and follow these 5 steps...lol
Stop Procrastinating In 5 Steps
Procrastination is the mother of all demons. It slows you down, it holds you back, and it gets in your way. Not to worry though - there are some effective processes to help you slay this giant.

We’ve all done it at one point or another. We'll put off our exercise routine until tomorrow, we'll continually delay finishing that project, and we’ll wait until next week to make that phone call.

Dictionary.com defines 'procrastination' as follows: To put off doing something, especially out of habitual carelessness or laziness.

It's no wonder procrastination is a common activity in our lives. It's the easiest, simplest and most convenient solution to essentially every problem. And it doesn't take a genius to figure out that those who do not procrastinate get a lot further in life.So how do you get to that point? It's much more straightforward than you might think.

Do it Now

Hold your breath and jump right in! Putting things off until the last minute is a bad habit and like all habits, it is ingrained into our subconscious mind. This kind of habit is hard to break. It feels like the normal thing to do and we simply continue along our path. To complete a task immediately may even feel strange or like a forced action. But it gets more natural with time.

When your boss gives you a task or when your clients or customers request your expertise, do it right away. On top of looking well organized to others, the feeling that the job is done in no time will be one of relief and gratitude. How would this type of efficiency look to your customers when you request a referral or to your boss when salary reviews are approaching? It would look great.

And this immediacy doesn't need to stop when you leave the office. By incorporating it into your personal life, you will be creating a personality trait - a habit.

Take Baby Steps

Sometimes we procrastinate because the task may be intimidating to us. Perhaps we have no possible inkling on where to start. In these cases, it is quite fine to take it one step at a time.

Say you are preparing a business plan and for the fifth time this week, you’ve turn on the PC and looked at the blank screen. Or you’ve just remembered you need to do some more research before you begin - you’re still not ready.

My friend, you are ready.

You simply need to break down the project into smaller pieces and tackle each bit separately. Make each task an individual project and after completion of each one, celebrate and acknowledge your achievement. Soon you’ll be finished and have no idea why you were putting it off in the first place.

The tactical approach of conquering a large task in small baby steps will take you a long way.

Vision the Perfect

Ah! I love this one. I use the Law of Attraction with my clients to have them easily and effortlessly achieve their dreams and desires and in effect, their visions. Once you are aware that you are in fact procrastinating, creating a vision of yourself achieving the perfect plan is extremely helpful. When you create a vision you write in the present tense - as if you have already achieved your goal or if you are in the process of completing it.

For example, we'll go back to the business plan. Your vision may look something like this.

“I am so grateful that I have completed all the research I need for my business plan. I am finding the information easily using the Internet. People who have written business plans are offering me advice that enables me to create an exciting plan that I resonate with. As I write, the words come to me effortlessly.”

In creating a vision and focusing on it daily, the universal laws state that things, people, processes will begin to occur in your life that will allow you to attract that vision.

Forget it

Why force the issue? If you've been dragging your feet on something for a very long time, it may all be for the best. A part of your mind may be trying to tell you something. And that part of your mind - your intuition - is usually right!

Think about something that you have been putting off again and again and again. What are the reasons that you need to complete this task in the first place? Does someone want you to do this? What is their agenda? What are your reasons for this lengthy delay?

I find it amazing that 99% of the time I put off doing something, I am thankful that I did! Disregarding a project after a long period of procrastination is however, usually a last resort.

Support Team

Do you put off tasks because you feel that there are too big and complex for you to handle alone? Or because you need assistance? Be honest with yourself. Remember the age-old expression - "No man is an island”.

Ask for help! There are many resources out there that can provide you with all you need to carry out your job.

If you’re a solo-professional and you put off answering emails, then don’t answer them yourself. Hire an assistant, find some college students who want experience, or get a family member to help.

Procrastinating on life changing activities could be as a result of fear of the unknown. Get a mastermind group together, find a mentor, or join a support group.

The bottom line is to focus on what it is you're good at and bring assistance to the areas where needed.

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just do it

Procrastination is a habit that you can do without. It slows you down, it holds you back, and it gets in your way. So review these steps and ask yourself the right questions. Get rid of any procrastinating tendencies and watch your productivity soar.

by Sandra Baptist, TheSoko.com

12.01.2006

Congratulation to
Nicole Richie,
for actually making it on PETA's worst dressed list: Animal rights group PETA recently released its worst dressed list and it seems skinny celebrities take the cake (whether they'd actually eat it or not is another story). << LOL

PETA's site gave "The Simple Life" star Nicole Richie top honours, saying, "This pelt-wearing party girl is all animal skin and bones. She's an incredible shrinking woman with the heart to match." The runner up is half the Olsen twins, Ashley. "Wearing fur does add 20 pounds." the site says, "but if Ashley wants to fill out her frame, we suggest using a fork instead." Actress Christina Ricci came in third with the following reason: "Disregarding the holiday seasons' 'Peace on Earth' message, Ricci recently posed for a magazine cover wearing fur from slaughtered reindeer. At least she's not into fur hats: Imagine how many more pelts it would take to cover that forehead." << OMG, I can't stop laughing! And rounding out the list in fourth is "Desperate Housewife" Eva Longoria. "You'd think she'd be more sympathetic to the plight of rabbits considering the way she screws around like one on Wisteria Lane." said PETA. OMG, the comments on PETA's website are hilarious!